I find it strange that people misread the the concept of destiny. Either because we don't read Quran or just read the arabic text for Sawab. Try to find the answers and keys of the treasurers in the Wisdom that Quran gives.
Here's your Answer:
Destiny,fate or Qismat means Everything is Written!
Question Here Comes:
If everything is already written than what are we doing here?
Does that mean, It is already decided determined who will go to Jannat(Heaven) & who will go to Jahanum(Hell) before he/she is born?
NO!
How, Why?
You see! Everything is already written, all the possible paths and options and decisions that we can take & all the possible results that we will achieve after choosing certain option or decision. But it is upto us to choose which path we take.
We have our destiny and our freedom of choice and on that we will be judged.
Some people have more luck or beauty or wealth in their destiny/fate. Most decision of a lucky person will result in beneficial manner as opposed to unlucky person. Beautiful & Handsome Men & Women have more options in their lives as oppose to average looking people. So do wealthy people can either spend for goodness of mankind or show off their wealth like Arabs do then die and be forgotten as Oppose to poor people to struggle their lives and yet serve the mankind as EDHI did.
Example of Rizq:
As Muslims we know that our Rizq is already written, right? BUT it is upto us how we choose to get it. Steal it, take it in form of Sood(Interest), Bribe, Forcibly take from some one, from orphans of your brother or a widow or Lie for it or take off your cloths for it. It is upto you what path/deed/decision/option you choose. But that amount of Rizq that is written for you, you will get that. Not more not less. Just that amount of Rizq, Even if you have no option & you are a homeless in America or a Castaway on an unknown island
Ali will be born on ABC year XYZ date, 123 time. He will go through small decisions making process to learn for example he cries and screams and his mother hurriedly gives him his beloved toy back & Boom he learns how to be insistent in order to get what he wants.
Until he is grown enough to know whats good & bad. Now he faces decisions on which he will be judged.
ABC Date, XYZ Year, 123 Time:
He enters a store to buy some house hold items and sees a porn magazine. Now he has
Option 1: Buy it and Hide it in his room
Option 2: Don't Buy but take a peek inside
Option 3: Don't Buy Neither Peek inside Get His Required Item & get Out of the Store.
Now whatever he choose he will be judged according to that.
These are couple of examples to make you understand. Hope you now grasped the whole concept of Destiny. Furthermore if you have confusions like that ever again. Ask Allah in your heart and the answer will be given to you. All you have to do is Ask Allah of Guidance Toward Him.
Please Choose To Ask Allah's Guidance
And he suspects his wife's ways and reasons to believe she may be cheating or going toward it.
Option1: Don't Think of Anything Murder her out of Pure Rage
Option2: Divorce Her
Option3: Discuss it with her
AND IF SHE SAY YES, SHE HAS STARTED TO LIKE SOME MAN.
Option1: Try to talk her Out of it
Option2: Divorce Her
OR IF YOU FIND THAT SHE IS NOT CHEATING BUT LEAVING ISLAMIC WAYS OF LIFE ANYWAY NOT READING SALAAT, OR OTHER HOUSEHOLD DISPUTE
Option1: Leave her on her ways & hope for best
Option2: Make Her Obey You By Threatening Her of Divorce
Option3:Use Islamic Method-1 to solve the dispute, Which is Agree in some Understanding(Islaah)
Option4: Use Islamic Method-2 cause it's more serious & She is actually on the wrong side.
[Method -2 step by step process, where you first tell her not do that then if she does not accept then separate the bed or room, if she does not accept even after that then use a (Miswak) toothbrush and hit her with it on her arm lightly to make her give attention toward you & to show your seriousness toward the matter, If she does not accept even then, Then you can Divorce her.}
Reference:
Wisdom of Quran
Org
Note: This article is written for Muslims. Thus many Islamic Words & concepts are present. Please don't google but ask a Muslim if you want to know those words or Concepts. Or ask in comments section or email me. Thanks
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Here's your Answer:
Destiny,fate or Qismat means Everything is Written!
Question Here Comes:
If everything is already written than what are we doing here?
Does that mean, It is already decided determined who will go to Jannat(Heaven) & who will go to Jahanum(Hell) before he/she is born?
NO!
How, Why?
You see! Everything is already written, all the possible paths and options and decisions that we can take & all the possible results that we will achieve after choosing certain option or decision. But it is upto us to choose which path we take.
We have our destiny and our freedom of choice and on that we will be judged.
Some people have more luck or beauty or wealth in their destiny/fate. Most decision of a lucky person will result in beneficial manner as opposed to unlucky person. Beautiful & Handsome Men & Women have more options in their lives as oppose to average looking people. So do wealthy people can either spend for goodness of mankind or show off their wealth like Arabs do then die and be forgotten as Oppose to poor people to struggle their lives and yet serve the mankind as EDHI did.
Example of Rizq:
As Muslims we know that our Rizq is already written, right? BUT it is upto us how we choose to get it. Steal it, take it in form of Sood(Interest), Bribe, Forcibly take from some one, from orphans of your brother or a widow or Lie for it or take off your cloths for it. It is upto you what path/deed/decision/option you choose. But that amount of Rizq that is written for you, you will get that. Not more not less. Just that amount of Rizq, Even if you have no option & you are a homeless in America or a Castaway on an unknown island
An Example To Further Clarify:
Ali will be born on ABC year XYZ date, 123 time. He will go through small decisions making process to learn for example he cries and screams and his mother hurriedly gives him his beloved toy back & Boom he learns how to be insistent in order to get what he wants.
Until he is grown enough to know whats good & bad. Now he faces decisions on which he will be judged.
ABC Date, XYZ Year, 123 Time:
He enters a store to buy some house hold items and sees a porn magazine. Now he has
Option 1: Buy it and Hide it in his room
Option 2: Don't Buy but take a peek inside
Option 3: Don't Buy Neither Peek inside Get His Required Item & get Out of the Store.
Now whatever he choose he will be judged according to that.
As he Aged
His mum is very old and turned into and childish old lady, very annoying and nagging, always asking for attention. There are countless occasions scattered throughout his daily life where he decise & choose how to react & behave with his old mother.Conclusions:
The wisdom here is that HE knows everything, Everything is already written But he Gave us the freedom of Choice! And we will be judged according to our actions based on our decisions.These are couple of examples to make you understand. Hope you now grasped the whole concept of Destiny. Furthermore if you have confusions like that ever again. Ask Allah in your heart and the answer will be given to you. All you have to do is Ask Allah of Guidance Toward Him.
Please Choose To Ask Allah's Guidance
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He is married:And he suspects his wife's ways and reasons to believe she may be cheating or going toward it.
Option1: Don't Think of Anything Murder her out of Pure Rage
Option2: Divorce Her
Option3: Discuss it with her
AND IF SHE SAY YES, SHE HAS STARTED TO LIKE SOME MAN.
Option1: Try to talk her Out of it
Option2: Divorce Her
OR IF YOU FIND THAT SHE IS NOT CHEATING BUT LEAVING ISLAMIC WAYS OF LIFE ANYWAY NOT READING SALAAT, OR OTHER HOUSEHOLD DISPUTE
Option1: Leave her on her ways & hope for best
Option2: Make Her Obey You By Threatening Her of Divorce
Option3:Use Islamic Method-1 to solve the dispute, Which is Agree in some Understanding(Islaah)
Option4: Use Islamic Method-2 cause it's more serious & She is actually on the wrong side.
[Method -2 step by step process, where you first tell her not do that then if she does not accept then separate the bed or room, if she does not accept even after that then use a (Miswak) toothbrush and hit her with it on her arm lightly to make her give attention toward you & to show your seriousness toward the matter, If she does not accept even then, Then you can Divorce her.}
Reference:
Wisdom of Quran
Org
Note: This article is written for Muslims. Thus many Islamic Words & concepts are present. Please don't google but ask a Muslim if you want to know those words or Concepts. Or ask in comments section or email me. Thanks
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